How to Be a Gentleman Towards Filipinas: Be the Ideal Man
Gone are the days when the graceful and demure Maria Claras stayed home, became wives, bore children, and served the men of the house.
Today, Filipinas take the lead, speak their minds, take on professions, and decide for themselves. They prefer independence, split the bill on the first date, and no longer expect chivalry from men.
But hit the brakes.
Despite what a lot of you think, Filipinas still want a gentleman.
Filipinas adore a man who ensures she gets home safely. Or a man who walks on the street side of the curb.
Anyone can play the part by doing the bare minimum. But this doesn't make him a gentleman. A real gentleman knows how to treat a lady in word and deed.
If you want to know how to be a gentleman and make any Filipina fall head over heels, here's how.
A Gentleman Doesn't Speak Lowly about Her
Some men keep their private lives private, but others kiss and tell.
If Filipinas were to choose one, they would want a man who could respect them even if they turned their backs.
A real gentleman always protects the integrity of his partner. Don't insult or share intimate information about her, even if it is with your closest friends.
Doing so is a sign of respect, not just towards her as a person but as the woman who will be your wife and the mother of your children.
A Gentleman Doesn't Cross the Line
A gentleman protects his woman, not abuses her.
Simply don't do anything to deliberately hurt the woman you love, whether physically or emotionally.
Don't insult and abuse her, even when she raises her voice. A gentleman stays calm and listens to her issues. You may disagree with her, but still treat her with respect, protecting your woman even from yourself.
In turn, whatever you give to your Filipina partner will double. If you give her your heart, she will give you all of her love.
A Gentleman Will Do His Best to Never Make Her Cry
A real gentleman shouldn't make a woman cry unless it's tears of joy.
Her happiness is supposed to be your happiness. Don't fill her nights with tears.
But, of course, even the most amazing man can make a woman cry now and then. If you upset her, comfort her until her frown turns upside down.
A Gentleman Will Meet Her Parents
A gentleman will make his intentions known by meeting the most significant people in her life.
Filipinas take dating seriously. They don't date just because they can; they date to marry. And you can show that you think the same as her by meeting her parents and asking for their blessing.
A gentleman will want to strengthen his position in her family circle, even before considering marriage.
Do You Have What It Takes to Be a Gentleman?
That's all you need to know about how to be a gentleman! It's easy, right?
Fortunately, one good thing about being a gentleman is that it can be learned. It may not be a skill per se, but it is an instinct you can develop over time.
It takes consistent and intentional effort to perfect the art of becoming one. By revisiting this article from time to time, you can speed up the process of becoming the gentleman who can capture a Filipina's heart.