The Waiting Game: Is It Worth It or a Waste of Time?

Okay, so you met someone, and you both like each other.

Yay! Good for you, buddy!

But don’t get excited just yet because this person isn’t ready for any commitment.

It’s not uncommon to find yourself in a position to take things to the next level, but the other person isn’t ready to place a label on what you currently have.

And when you fall into this situation, you only have two options: play the waiting game or move on.

Luckily, I can help you navigate this situation and choose the path that suits your best interests.

Is Waiting Worth It?

Romantic connections don’t look the same for any two couples.

Individuals have various criteria when determining their desire for commitment and exclusivity. Perhaps they’re still healing from their previous relationship or trying to focus on themselves more—all of which are perfectly good reasons.

In such situations, waiting will be worth it despite the challenges.

Waiting leads to a stronger bond down the road. It is not just standing idly, but working through what you currently have to foster a strong connection. By sticking it out, you’re laying the groundwork for a more meaningful connection with the other person.

Moreover, waiting shows the other person your loyalty and how much you care for them.

Is Waiting a Waste of Time?

Waiting is not the easiest and might not be the wisest thing to do.

You might miss opportunities to meet and connect with other potential partners and risk hurting yourself.

You are putting your romantic life on hold in the hopes of forming a romantic relationship with the person you’re waiting for.

You are leaving your chances to fate without any assurance.

That’s why, if their love for you—or your love for this person—isn’t THAT strong in the first place, you shouldn’t wait for them at all.

There’s plenty of fish in the sea.

Unfortunately, the Waiting Game Often Never Ends Well

There is no assurance that all your waiting will lead to fruition. More often than not, happy endings only happen in the movies.

You see, there can only be two outcomes in the waiting game: either you’ll build a relationship or not; there’s nothing in between.

So, if you want to risk it, at least manage your expectations.

Don’t expect too much, even if they promise you their love. There’s always the possibility that life can push them into the arms of another.

Tragic as that may be, that’s just how life is: unpredictable and complicated.

And this is why you should be willing to give your trust. On the other hand, expect the worst-case scenario while hoping for the best.

Should You Wait for Someone Who’s Not Ready for a Relationship?

Some people are worth waiting for, and some do not deserve your time.

Don’t put your life on hold for someone who doesn’t care about you or isn’t interested in you as much as you are in them.

Even if you’re willing to wait, can you say the same for them? You can’t just say, “Now we play the waiting game,” and take their word for it.

Don’t think, even for a minute, that waiting will make them grow to love you. Keep in mind that when someone comes along, they will leave you.

Before you play the waiting game, ensure that the person you’re waiting for likes and cares for you.