I'm Your Guide: Ronna's 7 Essential Truths on Why Filipinas Choose a Partner Like You
Filipinas primarily choose foreign men because they seek stable, family-oriented partners who offer emotional maturity and fidelity, qualities often missing in the local dating scene. As Ronna, an international matchmaker, confirms, age is viewed as a signal of responsibility and commitment, making men up to 60+ years old desirable for long-term relationships and family building in a culture where divorce is still not legal.
Hello! I'm Ronna, and I'm here to be your trusted guide. I spend my time talking to hundreds of single ladies here in the Philippines, from Cebu to Davao, about what they truly want in a life partner. My goal is simple: to share the honest, heart-centered truth and prepare you for a real, committed relationship.
If you are a sincere, older gentleman looking for genuine connection, please hear this: Your maturity and stability are precisely what these women value most. Let me share the seven essential truths I see leading to successful marriages every single week.
The 5 Core Values Filipinas Seek in a Partner
A Filipina looking abroad is searching for a partner who prioritizes commitment, stability, and mutual respect.
1. Age Signifies Stability and Emotional Maturity
In our culture, age is respected and often seen as a direct link to responsibility and wisdom. The age gap is not a negative; it's a positive factor.
The Data: When I interviewed Marilyn (42), she told me she was open to men up to 60 years old.
The Insight: They seek a man who is calm, mature, and focused on his partner, ready for a devoted life together.
2. They Value Unwavering Faithfulness Above All Else
This is often the deepest wound. Many women seek foreigners specifically to escape the pervasive culture of infidelity they experience with local dating.
The Testimony: Jessa (22), a student, told me she chose our agency because she was "not lucky" with local men's fidelity.
The Takeaway: Your commitment to being a loyal, one-woman man is the foundational requirement for trust.
3. The 'Provider Mindset' Means Reliability, Not Riches
The term "provider" is about cultural security, not a specific income bracket.
The Clarification: She wants a partner with a "provider mindset"—a man who is responsible, will not abandon his family, and is willing to work as a teammate. They do not expect you to be a billionaire.
4. They Cherish Simplicity and Comfort Over Extravagance
Forget the need for expensive gestures. What matters is the quality of your connection.
The Proof: Charol (45) asked for a "simple stroll" or a quiet meal as an ideal date. Marilyn simply wants a man who makes her feel comfortable and laughs with her.
The Takeaway: Being genuine, present, and respectful is far more valuable than a flashy lifestyle.
5. They Seek a Protector and a Stable Anchor
This is about finding a man whose character shines when tested.
The Real Story: When a small earthquake hit during a social, Cody (now engaged to Ronna May) immediately helped the women to safety. Ronna May saw his protective instinct—a testament to his character that money can't buy.
Matchmaker's Most Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to be rich to date a Filipina?
No, you do not need to be rich, but you must be financially stable and have a provider mindset. Filipinas prioritize a man who demonstrates responsibility and will not abandon the family.
Is a large age gap culturally acceptable in the Philippines?
Yes, a large age gap is highly acceptable. Women frequently prefer men in their 50s and 60s because they view the age difference as a positive signal of emotional maturity, patience, and seriousness about marriage and commitment.
I've heard bad things about "gold diggers." How do I know who is real?
The most effective filter is using a legitimate agency. Women choose agencies because they seek a safe, vetted process and are serious about finding a lifetime partner.
Will a Filipina sign a prenuptial agreement?
Many Filipinas are pragmatic and will sign a prenup, especially if you approach the topic with respect and trust.
What is the ideal first date with a Filipina?
The ideal first date is simple and comfortable. Women like Charol suggest a simple stroll, a quiet meal, or watching a movie, allowing genuine conversation to flourish.
A Personal Note from Me (Your Next Step)
I believe everyone deserves to find the love and commitment they seek. My role is to help you cut through the confusion and find the sincere woman who is waiting for you.
As Cody advised, "Take a chance... the stereotypes are 95% fake." Don't let doubt keep you waiting. I invite you to learn more and hope to see you on one of our upcoming tours!
